What We Do
WhoAreTheyReally.com helps people get clearer, fact‑based answers in dating using discreet research on legally available, open‑source information. We focus on clarity, safety, and discretion.
Services we offer
- Dating profile and identity review
We review names, photos, usernames, and dating profiles to see if they appear consistent across platforms, check for duplicates or fake accounts, and look for signs of catfishing.
- Public‑record and background checks (non‑FCRA)
We search publicly available records (where accessible) for things like criminal and court history, address history, and other open records that may be relevant to your situation.
- Story and detail verification
We compare what you’ve been told (location, job, education, relationship status, timelines, etc.) against public information to see where details match, don’t match, or are missing.
- Photo and image context checks
We can review photos for clues such as whether an image appears reused, old, or tied to a different place or context than what you were told.
- Risk flags and clarity summary
We organize findings into a clear, confidential summary highlighting consistency, discrepancies, and potential red flags, so you can make more informed decisions.
- Private Relationship Consultations
One on One phone or Zoom consultations to decypher reports and/or, srtep by step red flag detection.
What We Don’t Do
To keep you and us safe, there are important lines we don’t cross.
- We do not hack accounts, break into devices, or bypass passwords.
- We do not track, stalk, or physically follow anyone.
- We do not install spyware, keyloggers, or other monitoring tools.
- We do not impersonate you or catfish someone to get information.
- We do not provide services for employment, housing, credit, or similar FCRA‑regulated purposes.
- We do not provide legal, medical, or mental health advice, and we do not replace law enforcement in emergencies.